Catherine Lowe is one of the few success stories from Bachelor Nation. In fact, she’s the only Bachelor Endrose winner who actually tied the knot, so it’s safe to say she’s an expert at navigating relationships outside of the hit ABC reality dating series.

Catherine and husband Sean Lowe are happily married parents of three children, but even Catherine admits that it was difficult to get used to normal life outside of the reality TV cameras.

“I think people really want to find love, but there are so many factors involved,” Catherine revealed exclusively on July 13th on E! News’ Daily Pop on Why So Many Bachelor Nation Couples Broke Up. “There are so many things against you after you leave the show … I am really grateful and blessed that Sean and I saw this wonderful life afterward, but I can say that it is really hard to get there . ”

So what does the current Bachelorette star look like? Katie ThurstonRelationship budding, in Catherine’s opinion?

“I think the odds for the guys who get their first impression of the Bachelorettes are usually the last ones to stand,” said Catherine. “But here you can see.”