C.Lare Crawley and Dale Moss‘Relationship is not as rosy as it may seem.

E! News learned that the couple, who met and engaged at The Bachelorette last summer, have taken a hiatus from their romance.

“Clare and Dale have been fighting a lot lately,” a source tells E! News exclusive. “They mostly disagree on lifestyle preferences. Dale wants to be in a bustling city and focus on his career, and Clare is rooted in Sacramento to take care of her mother. It has been very between them lately tense.”

The reality TV couple’s Instagram followers have noticed the distance between them as Dale shares moments from his time in New York City while Clare stays near her home in Northern California.

Our insider notes that Dale, 32, cares deeply about Clare but “feels like he’s diving into something he’s not sure about.”

“Both are still getting to know each other and finding out everything,” the source explains. “You have decided to take some time for now … You are still wondering how logistical their relationship is and whether they will stay together.”