Everything is fair in love and social media warfare, just ask Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds.

Over the years, the Gossip Girl alum and Deadpool star, who have been married since 2012, have masterfully trolled each other online and in person. In fact, no birthday, anniversary, or milestone is complete without funny exchanges, cheeky comments, and snappy tribute posts. “We’re people who don’t take ourselves too seriously,” Ryan previously shared on the Sunday Sitdown with Willie Geist podcast. “The only people I really like to make fun of are us.”

Hey, some people’s love language is gift giving or maybe physical touch. For Blake and Ryan, it’s barbs trading. “We do it all the time in real life,” said Blake HI! of her loving back and forth. “It was just an organic thing and I don’t know where or when it happened, but we are just being all day [teasing] each other because that’s my best friend! “

And she couldn’t help but add: “Of course I always win. And I’m not competitive at all.”