Just over a month to become a mother for the first time Lala Kent learn some things the hard way.

The Vanderpump Rules star is officially in the parenting phase after giving birth to her and his fiancé Randall EmmettThe first child together, a daughter named ocean, March. The reality star recently recorded her Instagram story describing one of the couple’s “hardest days” with their newborn.

“I knew that certain foods could mess up my baby’s tummy, but I never worried too much,” Kent wrote on her social media post. “I had vegan food for lunchtime beans, cauliflower, etc. I’m sure you all think you’re an idiot, these foods give off gases to grown people! …”

“Ocean screamed, cried, and made a fuss from morning to night,” she said. “I gave a hint after my second feed and switched from the breast to a bottle of stored milk.”

While the newborn struggled all day, Kent was also overwhelmed with emotions about the feeding dilemma.